Here is a unique tip to make other top communicators know you are one of them
This month's tip-
MAKE A GREAT IMPRESSION -- THAT LASTS!
Everyone know the importance of a first impression. But what about your last impression? That sticks with people for a very long time. Why? Because your friendliness when you part subliminally signals how you feel about THEM.
Think about it. IF someone gives you a big hearty "Hello," you feel great. But, later, if they lethargically mumble "good bye," you can't help but subconciously think they like you less now. natural paranoia takes over and we feel we disappointed them in the encounter. Don't do that to people! When introduced to someone, END your conversation even more enthusiastically than you started it. Some suggestions:
At the END of the converstaion, tell a new acquaintance, "I'm so happy to meet you, Miguel!"
At the END of a chance-meeting, tell your colleague, "Good bumping into you, Barry."
At the END of a chat, tell your friend, "I always enjoy our converstations, Chelsea."
At the END of a meeting, "I appreciate the points you made, Peter"
At the END of a phone converstation, "It's so much fun talking to Fiona."
At the END of a date, "It was lovely being with you, Brendon."
A lively farewell -- LETTING THEIR NAME BE THE LAST WORD THEY HEAR -- is like a warm kiss at the end of an evening.
A lackluster, low-energy one sounds like a kiss-off.
If you have a “Little Trick,” for sensitive communicating, please send it to me. If published, I’ll credit you on the web page.
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